Moving to the central coast four years ago was an exciting prospect for my husband and me, but not without trepidation. I was leaving my family, church, and a lifestyle I was comfortable with. Maybe that was the problem although I didn’t know it at the time. I was comfortable.
Now I say to myself, “If someone had told me four years ago… I never would have believed it.” While I can’t know what would have happened had I stayed put, I think it took getting me out of my comfort zone to write a book, start graduate school, and become involved in several things I may not have done had I stayed in Orange County. It took close to two years, but now it feels like I’m home—and I love it. It’s not that I no longer miss the close connections from my old home, but rather the pluses have compensated for them and I’ve kept important relationships intact.
Change, true transformation, takes an investment of time, energy, and often money. Many people are dreaming of what life could be but are stuck living a life of what is. I see it every day as in the woman who badly wants to be fit, healthy, and self-confident in her appearance, but she’s over-worked, un-healthy, and worn out. Or the single mom of two children that I spoke with last month who thought it was too late to go back to school; after all she liked her job well enough. Maybe living in comfort isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. What do you think?
In health,
Heather Moreno
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